So this last week has been really busy. Last Saturday I studied then went to Chinese class. After class I went with Christina, Brenda, Carmen and Christina’s boyfriend to 798. 798 is an art district. It used to be factories back when Mao was in charge and trying to get China to modernize. Later they turned the area into an art district. So there are all sorts of displays, and they are constantly changing. Married couples will go there to get their wedding photos taken, many amature photographers will come and take photos of people. Its pretty fun, and every time you go there is something new to see. My new facebook photo was taken there. We went out to eat, and I didn’t get back till much later.
Dinner was great but I have learned something. When I am eating with Chinese people, I will only eat one or two bites of each dish. They tend to order a ton of dishes, and if I have four or five bites of the first dishes, by the time the last plates get out I’ll be full. There were things that I didn’t try because I was worried I was going to get sick. People here don’t seem to mind if I don’t finish something I don’t like, as long as I try everything. Although they have been respecting the fact that I don’t like having staring contests with my food. I also need to stock up on snacks in my room. A few hours after eating I’m hungry again….every single day. I know that I probably ought to re-train myself to just eat large meals, especially when that’s what everyone else is doing, but I’ve been doing snacks for so long I’m not sure that I can do that. For the record, I love hot pot and Korean BBQ, in both cases your food arrives raw, so you have to wait for your food to cook. So you are forced to eat slower, which is the way I love eating. Chinese people are more sharing when it comes to food. You don’t order and eat separate dishes most of the time. I kinda like this way better than the American-way. Its more comfortable and I’m not sure why. Finally I hate eating breakfast in the cafeteria’s around here. I’m always alone, and I really don’t like it. If seats run out people will sit with me (or I’ll join them), but they don’t seem to want to talk to me. So I have been buying yogurt and eating it in my room. I prefer getting up late anyway, and I also think that they give you way too much food for breakfast.
Sunday night I went with Yaohui, his friend Wang (pronounced Wong for people who haven’t studied Chinese), Luoyolo and his friend Huang Mingxin to play Badminton. Wang is a guy; Huang is a girl. We had to reserve a court and we got there late, so we only played for a short while. It was my first time playing. For those of you (like me) who don’t have a clue what this sport is, it is like tennis, but its got a light ball that has feathers on it. You are not supposed to let the ball hit the ground, just hit it back and forth over the net. At first I was awful. After about fifteen or twenty minutes of playing I did much better. It is ridiculously fun. I felt really sorry for Wang tho, he was my partner while Yaohui found Luo and Huang. He’s much better than me, so he was able to aim it at me, so I didn’t have to work very hard. I tried to do the same for him, but my victories mainly consisted of successfully hitting it, my aim is still pretty bad. I had classes in the middle of the week, I have classes Monday through Saturday. Only one or two classes each day tho, so its pretty easy.
I really feel like I’m starting to make friends. Classmates and random people on campus have been spending time with me. I have really been having a great time. But between updating online things (e-mail facebook this) and doing homework, and going to class, and hanging out with people I have been quite busy. The good news about this is, starting this week it’s a national holiday. The National holiday is a week-long vacation to celebrate the founding of the People’s Republic of China. Basically it’s the Chinese Fourth of July-Independence day type stuff. But it lasts all week, so we don’t have class. Something I have noticed is a lot of people ask me if I have plans for the National Holiday. I am not sure what the correct response is. Are they asking me because that is some sort of greeting? Like when we ask “How are you?”, we don’t really want an in-depth analysis of your life or psyche, we are just being polite and saying hi. Or are they asking me because I’m a foreigner and they are curious how I will spend my free time. Or are they asking me because if I don’t have plans they want to invite me to join theirs? I have actually picked up this habit, now I am regularly asking people what they are going to be doing for the national holiday, because I am curious about how people will respond to it. Most people say that they are going to visit their family. Beijing is a huge city, and most of my friends here aren’t actually native Beijingers. They don’t have many chances to return home, so that’s how they spend their time.
There are many subjects that interest me. Many, things I find conflicting. Individualism vs. Community, what foods are safe and what are dirty and the role of the government. In the first Amercians and Chinese differ drastically, but in the second they are somewhat similar. Both Americans and Chinese don’t really trust the government, and they don’t really think that their governments are working in their best interests. The government may have the intention to, but Americans and Chinese people both really are disillusioned with the government. Almost every person I have talked to has said that they have no interest in politics. I’d like to note, most of the time I don’t actually ask them about politics, its just a comment they make off hand, that they are not interested in politics. But as they get to know me, they open up a little, and I discovered that like Americans they really aren’t happy with the government. And like Americans they aren’t really changing it. Sure America changes its President somewhat regularly, but a huge number of Americans don’t vote, and even when people do vote, the system itself does not change immensely. We still have 3 branches of government that are stuck in a gridlock making it almost impossible for legislation to be enacted. We are still run by two parties, and they are still opposing parties. The Chinese don’t vote, don’t protest, don’t get involved in politics and don’t really change things. Like Americans. Their reasons for doing so are different, but its interesting for me how many people I run into who really don’t like the government.
You might have noticed I’m keeping things really general here. There is a gray area and I really don’t want to slip into the black. I know the Chinese government monitors the internet, and I don’t want anyone to get into trouble for something that they said to me. I don’t think that anyone said anything that they would get in trouble for, but the rules here are different from the rules in the United States. Also I am seen as apart of the in-crowd in two parts of campus. To the teachers, I am one of the English-speaking foreigners (they are not all Americans), and to my classmates I’m another college student. This means that both groups tell me information that they may or may not want the other group to know about. On one hand, this sucks a little cause I have to watch what I say and who I say it too, but on the other hand I am not an outcast. Its also really nice to fit in. I’m also honored that both groups respect me enough to share their thoughts, so I really don’t want to betray that trust.
Finally, one of my friends Carmen helped me on my Chinese dialogue and she was relentless. I had to memorize the piece word for word. My teacher would give me hints, but I needed to say and remember it on my own. Carmen spent literally two hours drilling me on the assignment. She would start a sentence and have me end it. She would read the Chinese, but out loud she would be saying the dialogue in English, and I would have to translate it back to Chinese. When I got stuck on a set of words she would tell me to repeat it. Over and over and over. Ten times even. The same sentence. It was awful and it was exactly what I needed. I could not escape her. I kept hinting that she had done enough and that she should go and I would finish up, and that I thought this was really boring for her. She didn’t stop till we finished it. Then she made me say it twice. I could not ask for a better tutor. I have been doing well in my classes and I’m quite happy about it.
I think I avoided culture shock. I have been slowly but surely learning all sorts of info about Asia in general for the past 8 years. I really feel like I was prepared for this trip. I knew what to expect. I knew how to use chopsticks and what a squatter toilet is, I knew that I would get stared at, I knew that people would want photos with me (hasn’t happened much here, but I haven’t been off campus much since school started). I knew what I was getting into. I am really enjoying it here. Well its almost bed time. ^_^ Night!~